1 Way to Discern Truth Amid all the Noise

by Lois Flowers

Inside: When conflicting reports and ideas swirl around us with ever-increasing intensity, it’s easy to get confused, overwhelmed or discouraged. Here’s one way to respond. ~

Molly was little—still young enough to sleep in a crib and take afternoon naps.

Our sweet girl usually woke up from her siestas quietly. She’s always been resourceful and imaginative, so there’s really no telling what all she did when we thought she was sleeping. Knowing her like we do now, it’s safe to assume she spent a significant amount of time playing around in her bed before she ever let us know she wanted to get up.

One day, though, she got herself into a bit of a pickle. When we heard her cries and ran upstairs to see what was wrong, we found that one of her pudgy little legs was stuck between the slats in the crib.

Randy attempted to bend the slats apart. He wiggled Molly’s leg around. He slathered it with baby lotion and tried to slide it through the opening.

Nothing Worked

He finally concluded the only solution was to cut one of the slats. He went to the garage to fetch a saw and was on his way back to Molly’s room when Lilly, the ever-protective big sister, saw what he was doing.

Horrified, she grabbed on to his leg with as much of a death grip as her five-year-old body could muster.

“No, Daddy,” she shrieked. “Don’t cut her leg off!”

Randy had no intention of doing that, of course. From Lilly’s perspective, though, Molly was stuck in her crib, and Daddy had a saw.

What Else Was She to Think?

We laugh about this now, but it’s also a sobering reminder that things aren’t always as they seem. First impressions are often inaccurate. A lack of understanding can lead to assumptions that are flat-out wrong.

Even after a great deal of thought or careful research, the “right answer” still might not be obvious. Not every solution is a finger swipe away. Even when we’re confident in our intelligence, sensory abilities or investigative skills, we can miss things—sometimes very important things.

In these tumultuous days, when conflicting reports and ideas about practically everything swirl around us with ever-increasing intensity, it’s easy to get confused, overwhelmed, perhaps even depressed. Truth exists, of course. But amid all the noise and “expert” opinions, it’s sometimes hard to discern, especially when we lack all the facts or even the ability to fully understand the situation.

1 Simple Prayer

More and more, as I ponder my responses to situations far more serious than a pudgy leg stuck in a crib, I find myself whispering one simple prayer to our omniscient God:

“Send Your light and Your truth; let them lead me.” (Psalm 43:3)

Time after time, He is faithful to answer—if only with the quiet reassurance of His presence.

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Have you ever found yourself in a spot similar to Lilly, where what seemed to be happening was not at all what was taking place? What did you learn from the experience? Please share in the comments.

Lois

Things aren’t always as they seem. First impressions are often inaccurate. A lack of understanding can lead to assumptions that are flat-out wrong. Share on X Not every solution is a finger swipe away. Even when we’re confident in our intelligence, sensory abilities or investigative skills, we can miss things—sometimes very important things. Share on X

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16 comments

Bethany McIlrath July 20, 2024 - 10:12 am

What a vivid picture of how our impressions of things can be so off-base! Thank you, friend, for the wise and timely reminder that we don’t know it all, and often can’t, but we can trust the Lord to lead us in truth!

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Lois Flowers July 26, 2024 - 7:14 pm

Amen to that, Bethany! Hugs, friend.

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Trudy July 17, 2024 - 11:01 am

I love the photo and the story and lesson in Molly’s predicament and Lilly’s anxiety, Lois. Such a meaningful analogy. “Send Your light and Your truth; let them lead me.” Amen! Love and blessings of His light and truth!

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Lois Flowers July 19, 2024 - 9:17 am

Thanks, Trudy. It’s a favorite family story, for sure. And the lesson is just as relevant in today’s world as it was back then, I think. Love and hugs to you, friend.

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Jennifer July 17, 2024 - 9:41 am

What a cute photo:) How can they be grown women now? I think I have gotten much better (in these older years) about jumping to assumptions. Slower to look for the whole picture…and to seek His advice, leading and wisdom. But, no doubt, still a work in progress!

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Lois Flowers July 19, 2024 - 9:16 am

Me too, Jennifer! I suppose we will be works in progress until the day we enter eternity … or at least I hope so. I don’t want to ever start thinking I’ve arrived somewhere … I’m sure disaster would be right around the corner if that happened. 🙂

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Linda Stoll July 17, 2024 - 7:15 am

Lead me.

Amen.

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Lois Flowers July 19, 2024 - 9:15 am

Amen, Linda!

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Joanne Viola July 17, 2024 - 5:32 am

This was such a good post (and story). The simple prayer of Psalm 43:3 is one we all need. Many years ago, I began praying for discernment each morning. I realized how much I needed it in order to raise my children and to navigate life. I’m adding this verse to my prayer.

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Lois Flowers July 19, 2024 - 9:14 am

I pray for discernment too, Joanne. Parenting children of any age in our own strength would be a complete disaster, I think!

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Michele Morin July 16, 2024 - 4:40 pm

One of our oldest son’s first words was STUCK! He was always getting himself wedged into impossible positions so this story brought a smile.

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Lois Flowers July 19, 2024 - 9:13 am

I love that stuck was one of your son’s first words, Michele! And isn’t fun to look back and see what traits those little ones exhibited look like now that they are adults?

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Barbara Harper July 16, 2024 - 2:54 pm

Poor Lilly! What a great reminder not to jump to wrong conclusions when we don’t have all the facts and don’t completely understand the situation. I’m sure that if a similar situation occurred in another ten years, she’d know right away her father’s intention was not to harm, even if she didn’t understand what he had in mind. I love that with our heavenly Father, too–even when we don’t understand what He is doing, we know He is good and He loves us.

What a good verse to pray when we’re not clear on what’s true.

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Lois Flowers July 19, 2024 - 9:11 am

I find myself praying it quite often these days, Barbara!

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Ashley Rowland | HISsparrowBlog July 16, 2024 - 10:22 am

Love this, Lois! What a story! But I love the application you’ve gleaned from it. What a great reminder.

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Lois Flowers July 19, 2024 - 9:11 am

Thanks, Ashley! The application has been helpful to me too.

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