Elizabeth’s Life Provides Encouragement for Us All

by Lois Flowers

Inside: The pivotal role Elizabeth played in the Christmas story holds inspiration and instruction for each of us, no matter our age or status in life. ~

If Oscars were handed out to participants in the Christmas narrative, I think Elizabeth deserves the nod for best actress in a supporting role.

The first chapter of Luke tells us that she and her husband, the priest Zechariah, were “righteous in God’s sight.” Sadly, though, “they had no children because Elizabeth could not conceive, and both of them were well along in years.”

This devout Jewish couple had struggled with infertility but had long since given up waiting for a baby because it was biologically impossible. They were too old.

Then One Day …

Zechariah was burning incense before the Lord in the temple and the angel Gabriel appeared to him. The angel told him Elizabeth was going to have a baby, and that the baby would serve as the forerunner to the Messiah.

Though a godly man, Zechariah didn’t believe the angel. As a result, he was struck mute until the baby was born. (I wrote about this last week, in a post titled When Doubt Paves the Way for Hope.)

The angel was right, of course. Elizabeth—despite her age and lack of necessary hormones—conceived and eventually had the child we know as John the Baptist.

In the meantime, she spent considerable time with her relative, Mary, who had recently received her own incredible news from Gabriel.

A Curious Conversation

When the angel appeared to Zechariah, he said, “Do not be afraid, Zechariah, because your prayer has been heard. Your wife Elizabeth will bear you a son and you will name him John.” (Luke 1:13)

His wording intrigues me. I’m guessing this couple’s infertility had caused them great grief when they were younger, and perhaps they still had tender spots in their hearts about the subject. But they were well past the season of praying for a miracle baby.

For God, though, the season of miracles was just beginning. He had heard the prayers they prayed so long ago, and He was answering them now.

If you’re waiting for some kind of divine response this Christmas season, let this encourage your heart. There may be desires that we must hold loosely and even let go because they may not be part of God’s plan for us. But He does hear—and remember—every single prayer.

While it may seem that our prayers our bouncing off the ceiling, they’re not. God will answer—in His way and in His timing.

The Story Continues

After the angel appeared to Mary, the Bible says she “hurried to the town in the hill country of Judah where she entered Zechariah’s house and greeted Elizabeth” (who was in her sixth month of pregnancy).

Further, “When Elizabeth heard Mary’s greeting, the baby leaped inside her and Elizabeth was filled with the Holy Spirit. Then she exclaimed with a loud cry: ‘You are the most blessed of women, and your child will be blessed! How could this happen to me, that the mother of my Lord should come to me?’ ” (Luke 1:41-43)

It would have been easy for Elizabeth to become bitter, angry and disillusioned with God as a result of her infertility, but that doesn’t seem to be what happened to her.

Despite the societal disgrace she experienced, I think she remained wholeheartedly devoted to God in the midst of her pain and disappointment. After all, the words that spilled from her lips when Mary arrived seemed very natural—as if she were used to praising God.

Mary’s Place of Refuge

And did you notice that when the angel appeared to Mary, she hurried to Elizabeth’s house? The Scriptures later say she stayed there for three months, which speaks volumes about the kind of person Elizabeth was. She wasn’t a bitter old shrew, disgruntled at God and everyone else because her life hadn’t turned out the way she thought it should.

She was the person to whom Mary ran when she found out the exciting, troubling, overwhelming, amazing news that she was miraculously pregnant with God’s Son!

Perhaps Mary ran to Elizabeth because she knew Elizabeth would believe her, not cast judgment on her. She knew Elizabeth would praise God with her, and she knew Elizabeth would encourage and support her—all in the quiet safety of her home.

God’s Purposes

Why on earth did God make Elizabeth wait so long to fulfill her dream of motherhood? Why did He choose her to give birth to John the Baptist, the forerunner of the Messiah?

We don’t know the answers to these questions. We only know what happened as a result of her situation, and how it was used in the lives of others.

Just after Gabriel told Mary how it was possible for her to be pregnant, he added this: “And consider your relative Elizabeth—even she has conceived a son in her old age, and this is the sixth month for her who was called barren. For nothing will be impossible with God.” (Luke 1:36)

Right after that, Mary rushed to Elizabeth’s house and spent those three months under her nurturing wing. How important it must have been for the young, unmarried Mary to spend that time with another recipient of God’s miraculous grace at that specific time in her life.

Granted, Elizabeth was carrying Zechariah’s baby and Mary was carrying God’s Son. But they both found themselves in extremely unusual situations.

Not About Us

Had God answered Elizabeth’s prayers earlier in her life, she would have missed out on many blessings. Not the least of which was the opportunity to encourage the mother of the Messiah! Maybe, just maybe, her wait for a baby had more to do with Mary than with herself.

And maybe, just maybe, the same is true for us. Perhaps there are times in our lives when God allows us to experience things primarily so that we can be a piece of someone else’s puzzle.

Here’s another way of putting it:

Sometimes, our seasons in the waiting room are not about us. They’re all about how God wants to use us and our experiences to help someone else.

“Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves receive from God.” ~ 2 Corinthians 1:3-4

Lois

While it may seem that our prayers our bouncing off the ceiling, they’re not. God hears and He will answer—in His way and in His timing. Share on X Sometimes, our seasons in the waiting room are not about us. They’re all about how God wants to use us and our experiences to help someone else. Share on X

P.S. I’m linking up this week with #tellhisstory, InstaEncouragements, Let’s Have Coffee and Grace & Truth.

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16 comments

Bethany McIlrath December 15, 2024 - 7:38 pm

This enoucraged my heart, friend, thank you! Praise God, the God of all comforts who can do the impossible!

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Lois Flowers December 21, 2024 - 11:18 am

Amen, Bethany. Praying for you today, friend.

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Carol December 15, 2024 - 1:09 pm

It is good to be reminded that God hears our prayers. I was curious about Mary’s visit to Elizabeth and did a little research. Elizabeth and Zechariah lived in Ein Karem, a village outside of Jerusalem. Their home was approximately 75 miles from Nazareth. Mary would probably not have known about Elizabeth’s pregnancy unless the angel Gabriel told her.

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Lois Flowers December 15, 2024 - 6:37 pm

Such a good point, Carol … if Mary didn’t know, what a surprise she must have gotten when she showed up at Elizabeth’s house! I didn’t know she had to travel that far to get there … that seems like a long way for the kind of transportation they had back then.

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Trudy December 12, 2024 - 1:51 pm

Such beautiful truths here, Lois. Thank you! This gives such hope – “Sometimes, our seasons in the waiting room are not about us. They’re all about how God wants to use us and our experiences to help someone else.” Amen! Love and blessings of abundant hope and peace this Christmas and always!

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Lois Flowers December 13, 2024 - 10:09 am

That gives me hope too, Trudy. It’s not always about us, is it? 🙂 Much love to you too, dear friend.

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Linda Stoll December 12, 2024 - 7:54 am

‘A Curious Conversation’ caught my eye right away.

Lois, this is a good reminder that God is always whispering in our ears, always inviting us to something deeper, more substantial. And yes, what He has to say is sometimes curious, designed to make us think and ponder and choose.

Thanks for taking me there this morning, friend. Advent blessings to you and your beautiful family!

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Lois Flowers December 13, 2024 - 10:08 am

Linda, Mary’s practice of pondering things in her heart is such an example for us, isn’t it? Blessings to you this mid-December morning!

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Donna December 11, 2024 - 3:49 pm

Waiting is never easy my friend, is it? I just wrote a post about waiting for answers to prayer and learning to live in that empty space. Hallelujah God redeems even the waiting seasons!

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Lois Flowers December 13, 2024 - 10:06 am

Donna, I’d like to think I’ve gotten better at waiting over the years, and then I end up in an actual waiting room and realize how far I have yet to go! I loved your post, friend … and yes, God does redeem those waiting seasons as only He can.

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Barbara Harper December 11, 2024 - 11:28 am

I was just reading something similar about Ruth this morning–that her story wasn’t just the surface story of finding love in unexpected places, and grace after hardship and loss, but of her link in the timeline of the Messiah. I hope in heaven we’ll hear more of these kinds of threads of God’s grace and long-term working out of His will.

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Lois Flowers December 13, 2024 - 9:59 am

Me too, Barbara. Your observation about Ruth is one I’ve often thought about regarding women in the Bible who conceived after being barren. That’s part of the reason why when I was dealing with infertility, I found more comfort in other biblical stories. But that is probably a conversation for another day. 🙂

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Michele Morin December 11, 2024 - 7:18 am

Having been pregnant at almost 40, I can’t imagine what it must have been like for Elisabeth to be pregnant at her advanced age. All I can say to her joyful obedience and long faithfulness is “Ugh!” She’s such a vivid example of offering up her entire self to God for his purposes—and who knows if she even lived long enough to see her son’s role in God’s redemptive plan…?

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Lois Flowers December 13, 2024 - 9:56 am

My guess is not, though I suppose we can add that to the list of things we may or may want to ask about in heaven! I’ve never been pregnant, but I think I can understand your reaction to her response. She must have been one hearty woman–naturally or supernaturally.

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Lisa December 10, 2024 - 7:51 am

Thank you, Lois!
The joys and the sorrows of the true Christmas story… bringing hope to all in the waiting for Messiah, our King, Jesus.

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Lois Flowers December 13, 2024 - 9:52 am

Amen, Lisa! I hope you are having a wonderful December!

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