Encouragement That Holds Up Through the Hardest Seasons

by Lois Flowers

Inside: There are platitudes, and then there’s truth that holds up. Keep reading for a few thoughts that provide hope and comfort during the darkest of days. ~

There are things I tell myself when the going gets especially rough. I’ve mined these bits of truth from scripture, from the rearview mirror of my own life, from watching dear ones walk through trials far greater than any I’ve ever endured.

I shared some of these thoughts here in January 2019. I had no idea that in the coming months, both of my parents would slowly decline and then die within five weeks of each other. I had no inkling of the havoc those losses would wreak in my body, mind and heart.

Flashback

I stumbled across that old blog post a few weeks ago. I was curious to see how those words I wrote to encourage others had held up during my own hard days and nights.

Turns out, they held up well, which is why I decided to share them with you again today. If you’re in the middle of a dark or heavy season, my prayer is that the following thoughts will comfort you and give you hope.

• You will not always feel how you feel today.

• It may seem like you are the only one who has ever been where you are right now, but you’re not.

• Somehow, you will get used to your new normal.

• You will find a way to live with what Ann Voskamp calls “your one broken heart.”

• Your current struggle will not always be the last thing on your mind when you go to sleep and the first thing you think about when you wake up.

• When you come out on the other side, you will be changed. Don’t try to predict it; just expect it.

• The longer you live, the more times this process will repeat itself in your life.

• God will work out what you are going through for your good and His glory.

A Few Final Thoughts

Day by day—whatever you do and however you feel—hold fast to God and His Word. Seek out His promises. Trust in His never-ending faithfulness.

Remember: He who has begun a good work in you will complete it. He will fulfill His purpose for you. He will not abandon the work of His hands.

He is with you. He is for you. He goes before you.

Always.

Lois

Your current struggle will not always be the last thing on your mind when you go to sleep and the first thing you think about when you wake up. Share on X God will work out what you are going through for your good and His glory. Share on X

P.S. I’m linking up this week with Inspire Me Monday, #tellhisstory, InstaEncouragements, Let’s Have Coffee and Grace & Truth.

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16 comments

Lisa notes July 20, 2023 - 1:57 pm

Such wonderful encouragement here, Lois! Several of these statements are very applicable for me in this season. Thank you, friend!

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Lois Flowers July 23, 2023 - 3:21 pm

I’m glad you found encouragement here, Lisa. Praying for you, friend …

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Kym July 17, 2023 - 2:35 pm

Wise words that will prove true no matter what kind of struggles we face. God is always so good, no matter how bad things seem to be.

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Lois Flowers July 19, 2023 - 7:11 pm

Amen, Kym. Hugs, friend.

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Bethany McIlrath July 16, 2023 - 7:16 am

Wise and comforting words, Lois. Thank you!

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Lois Flowers July 19, 2023 - 7:11 pm

Thank YOU, Bethany. I’m so grateful for your encouragement through some of those tough seasons. 🙂

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Barbara Harper July 12, 2023 - 1:26 pm

Yes, these truths hold up well. It’s often interesting to go back and read something we wrote a long time ago and have it minister to us all over again.

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Lois Flowers July 14, 2023 - 2:34 pm

That’s so true, Barbara. Writing that keeps on giving, or something like that. 🙂

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Donna July 12, 2023 - 12:05 pm

Thank you for this beautiful encouragement today my Friend. My heart was heavy and needed this rest.

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Lois Flowers July 14, 2023 - 2:33 pm

Oh Donna, I’m sorry for your heavy heart. Sending love and hugs, friend.

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Linda Stoll July 12, 2023 - 10:50 am

Those bullet points are true, hope-filled, and balm for weary souls, Lois. Such grace and kindness, too …

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Lois Flowers July 14, 2023 - 2:32 pm

Aw, Linda … thanks so much. So grateful for your encouragement during those sad, weary days.

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Joanne Viola July 11, 2023 - 6:25 pm

Lois, such a good post and one that could often be repeated as we so need reminders. When going through hard situations my mom would say to us, “This time tomorrow (or next week, or next month) this will all be behind you.” And she was so right. The Lord always brings us through and we emerge more confident in His faithful care over our lives. Blessings!

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Lois Flowers July 14, 2023 - 2:31 pm

Oh Joanne, your mom’s words are so wise and comforting. (That train of thought helps when I am facing some kind of medical event or procedure.) Hugs, friend.

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Trudy July 11, 2023 - 2:32 pm

Oh Lois, I love rereading these comforting thoughts. They are so relevant to anything we go through at any time. Thank you so much for these encouraging reminders! Love and blessings of strength and peace to you as you enter an empty nest season!

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Lois Flowers July 14, 2023 - 2:29 pm

Thanks so much, dear friend. It was a blessing to your read your words this week … I’m always happy when you are able to post. 🙂

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