New Series: Faith, Fear & the Life of a Writer

by Lois Flowers

I wrote something last February about what it means to be a real writer. That piece— “The Road to Real is Paved with Brokenness”—garnered quite a discussion in these parts, and also uncorked something in me that has been bubbling just under the surface ever since.

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I had every intention of using those words as a springboard to sharing more of my writing story in the coming months. I even stated as much in the post.

But then all sorts of drama started happening around me (broken bones, Influenza A, car trouble—that sort of thing). Suddenly it was May and the end of the school year. The summer brought all kinds of busyness—some expected, some not.

Time and again, I was reminded of my favorite John Lennon quote: “Life is what happens to you while you’re busy making other plans.”

I decided I wanted to embrace life while it was happening, rather than get stressed out because I lacked the focused time or mental energy to think through where I wanted to go with my writing series. So I put my plans for this little project on hold for awhile.

And wouldn’t you know—while on hold, it morphed into … this.

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As I thought about what I’ve experienced and learned over my years as a journalist, writer and—much more recently—blogger, I noticed some patterns. When I realized these patterns matched certain themes that I find myself addressing here quite often, the title of the series—“Faith, Fear & the Life of a Writer”—snapped into place.

I won’t be covering time-management tips for writers, how to write a book proposal, how to come up with ideas, whether to use that or which, or anything relating to growing a blog or a platform. Those are all important, helpful topics, but they’re not my topics.

I’m a storyteller, so that’s what I’m going to do.

I will address a few how-to-ish subjects from time to time, but only those that relate to developing a transparent voice in any kind of communication.

Because, you see, this series is not just about writing, nor is it just for writers.

Life lessons cross occupational lines, after all. We have might have different skill sets and operate in different settings, but what I’ve learned as a writer are likely some of the same things you’ve learned as a teacher, physical therapist, musician, interior designer, engineer, bookkeeper, homemaker or nurse.

So when I share the less-than-inspiring reason behind my career choice, or how my sometimes-paralyzing need for affirmation has affected my life, or what God taught me through my biggest professional disappointment, my prayer is that you will be prompted to look for the threads of providence, grace and love that are intricately woven throughout your own journey of faith and work.

Some of these topics are rather revealing—perhaps even slightly embarrassing—for me. But I’m not one to shy away from vulnerability—in real life or on this blog.

The irony is not lost on me—that a woman who is sometimes crippled by fear is not the slightest bit afraid to write about pride, failure and insecurity using herself as the primary example. As strange as it may seem, though, I never wonder, Will someone think less of me for this?

It’s not that I don’t care what people think. I just always have this feeling that another person might be able to relate to my story, and by relating, walk away with something useful. In other words, I have nothing to lose, but someone else might have something to gain.

So I’ll tell my stories in hopes that it will inspire you to tell yours—in writing, in person, online—all for the eventual goal of encouraging someone else.

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For the next month or so, my weekly posts will be part the “Faith, Fear & the Life of a Writer” series. After that, my plan is to devote at least one post a month to this ongoing project. If you don’t want to miss a post, you are welcome to subscribe to this blog via email or follow me on Twitter, where I will tweet when new posts are published. 

Lois Flowers

P.S. I’m linking up this week with Kelly Balarie at Purposeful Faith, Jennifer Dukes Lee at #TellHisStory, Holley Gerth at Coffee for Your Heart, Lyli Dunbar at ThoughtProvokingThursday, Crystal Storms at HeartEncouragementThursday, Crystal Twaddell at FreshMarketFriday and Dawn Klinge at Grace & Truth.

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24 comments

Crystal Twaddell October 17, 2016 - 9:09 pm

Lois, this sound very interesting…looking forward to you pouring out everything that’s been simmering:) And glad it’s your story!

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Lois Flowers October 18, 2016 - 8:30 pm

Thanks, Crystal. I’m glad to have you along for the journey, wherever it goes! 🙂

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Lisa notes October 13, 2016 - 12:01 pm

You’re very brave in committing to share more stories, Lois. Sometimes the “fearful” people are the ones who show the most courage because when they step out to do something, they’re doing it in spite of their fear, not from lack of fear.

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Lois Flowers October 13, 2016 - 3:04 pm

Lisa, I think you are on to something about the “fearful people.” I’ve been coming to a very similar realization just this week … can’t wait to explore that more in the coming weeks, too! Thank you for your kind words today. 🙂

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bethany October 13, 2016 - 8:25 am

Very much looking forward to this Lois! : ) “I have nothing to lose, but someone else might have something to gain.” -such a rare and precious attitude. That’s a quote I need to keep in my heart for facing my own fears. Can’t wait to continue learning how the Lord has walked you through the life of fear, fair, and writing thus far!

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Lois Flowers October 13, 2016 - 3:02 pm

“Thus far” is right, Bethany. Even as I was writing my post for next week, I was realizing things I had never seen before (which I’m guessing will probably result in ANOTHER blog post)! I’m so glad to have you along for this little ride, my friend!

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Sarah Donegan October 12, 2016 - 7:16 pm

This sounds so cool! I am with you on I have nothing to lose but someone else might have something to gain. I think we isolate our hearts too often by not sharing.

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Lois Flowers October 13, 2016 - 2:55 pm

Absolutely, Sarah. Here’s to eliminating heart isolation!

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Lauren Gaskill October 12, 2016 - 8:52 am

Can’t wait for this new series!! This is going to minister to so many people, including me!

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Lois Flowers October 13, 2016 - 2:52 pm

That’s my hope and prayer, Lauren! So glad you stopped by this week. 🙂

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Linda Stoll October 12, 2016 - 8:36 am

This looks like an adventure! Can’t wait to see how God’s enabled you to snatch fear away from the enemy’s territory and is using it to unleash the giftedness He’s given you.

Amen! You go, girl!

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Lois Flowers October 13, 2016 - 2:52 pm

Thanks, Linda. It seems He’s working on me even now, which makes it all the more exciting! 🙂

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Christi October 12, 2016 - 6:50 am

LOVE! Anything from you. But this series sounds awesome!

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Lois Flowers October 12, 2016 - 8:28 am

Thanks, Christi. 🙂 Hopefully all the thoughts swirling (or crawling) around in my head will make sense on the screen to someone besides me!

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Valerie Sisco October 11, 2016 - 7:21 pm

Lois,
I look forward to this! I love the tagline and am eager to learn more about what makes you tick — as a writer and as a woman following God. It’s hard to imagine sometimes that others can find a gem buried in the dirt of our stories, but that’s what makes this journey of our lives a brilliant adventure! xo

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Lois Flowers October 12, 2016 - 8:21 am

I agree, Valerie. I love the image of gems buried in the dirt of our stories … there’s always something valuable to unearth, isn’t there? I’m so glad to have you along for the adventure! 🙂

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Trudy October 11, 2016 - 4:09 pm

I really want to embrace life while it’s happening, too, Lois. I’m really looking forward to this series and your insight. As I looked back on the other article, I remembered it. The same line spoke to me as it did then – “Stop worrying about being a real writer and concentrate on producing writing that is real.” Blessings and hugs to you!

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Lois Flowers October 11, 2016 - 8:07 pm

You definitely produce writing that is real, Trudy … real and encouraging and full of kindness. Thanks for being here, my friend!

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Lesley October 11, 2016 - 1:55 pm

This sounds like a great series. Thank you for your willingness to be open and vulnerable. Looking forward to reading these posts. I’m sure I will learn a lot.

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Lois Flowers October 11, 2016 - 8:06 pm

I hope so, Lesley. 🙂 Thanks for your encouragement today!

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Tiffany Parry October 11, 2016 - 1:09 pm

Okay, I’m so excited for this! Not only because your words are SO good, but because my heart beats with yours on so many of these topics! Can’t wait to read and be encouraged in my own faith, fears and writer life!

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Lois Flowers October 11, 2016 - 8:05 pm

Tiffany, having just read the new “About” section on your blog, I know what you are talking about when it comes to those common heartbeats. I’m so glad you are here, my friend!

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Betsy de Cruz October 11, 2016 - 1:06 pm

Hey, Lois! I remember that post you’re talking about, so I’m glad you’re picking this theme up again. I know you have so much wisdom and experience to share. 🙂

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Lois Flowers October 11, 2016 - 8:01 pm

Thanks, Betsy. I’m looking forward to it! 🙂

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