One of the Best Ways We Can Love Our Loved Ones

by Lois Flowers

Inside: When we care deeply for people, we can demonstrate that love by praying them through every season of their lives. Plus, we take a moment to commemorate a blogging milestone. ~

I’m all about celebrating big and small milestones—in my actual life as well as online. So before we get to the heart of today’s post, I thought I’d mention this is the 500th time I’ve hit “publish” here on the blog.

As someone who has mostly only posted once a week, it’s taken me a while to reach this number. And while I never had it as a goal, it’s fun to stop for a moment and give thanks.

For readers near and far, for a schedule that allows me time to do this, and especially for God’s grace that has sustained me and my family through the ups and downs that I’ve written about in many of those posts.

If you’ve been here for any length of time, you know prayer is a topic near and dear to my heart. As my daughters move further into young adulthood, I don’t see that changing much.

In fact, one of the most important ways I can love my family during this season of our lives is by praying for them.

That doesn’t just apply to me, of course. Prayer is a pivotal spiritual practice no matter who we are or what stage of life we may be in.

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In waiting rooms and living rooms, bedrooms and examination rooms. In the garden, the shower, the pickup line, the checkout line.

Love prays.

Through windshield time, nap time, crunch time, white-knuckle time.

Love prays.

On vacation days, sick days, project bid days. On beautiful days, hard days, tired days,

Love prays.

With anguished cries and whispers of praise, with a gush of words or no words at all.

Love prays.

When tears are flowing and stomachs are churning. When thankfulness is flowing and happiness is growing. When hearts are pounding and pulses are racing.

Love prays.

When the road is long, when the path is smooth. When the diagnosis is clear, when the outcome is uncertain. When the surgery is successful, when the procedure fails.

Love prays.

For wisdom, for healing, for strength, for protection. For peace, for comfort, for understanding, for faith. For redemption, for conviction, for boldness, for patience.

Love prays.

For what’s good, for what’s better, for what’s best.

Love prays.

When the future shines bright, when eternity shines brighter.

Love prays.

In the face of fear, of rejection, of discouragement. On days of grace and hope and change.

Love prays.

When the answers are obvious, when there’s no end in sight.

Love prays.

Across the miles, across the street. In the dead of night, at the break of dawn. Over the years and minute by minute.

Love prays.

When it’s hard to let go, when it’s hard to hold on.

Love prays.

During testing hours and weeks of blessing. During moments of rejoicing and seasons of grief.

Love prays.

When there’s too much to do and nothing left to do.

Love prays.

Lois

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P.S. I’m linking up this week with #tellhisstory, InstaEncouragementsLet’s Have Coffee and Grace & Truth.

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30 comments

Paula July 19, 2024 - 5:28 pm

Yay on your 500th! This is so beautiful Lois. Your words are like balm for the soul.
Thank You so much for sharing with Sweet Tea & Friend’s this month. I’m so happy you’re here.

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Lois Flowers July 26, 2024 - 7:13 pm

Thanks, Paula. I’m thankful for you too! 🙂

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Delores July 1, 2024 - 7:02 am

Today is the first time I’ve read your post, but I needed the reminder to pray . To pray more! I’d love to read more of your writings. Delores.

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Lois Flowers July 7, 2024 - 1:27 pm

I need to pray more too, Delores! I’m glad you stopped by this past week … do come again soon! 🙂

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Bethany McIlrath June 29, 2024 - 4:20 pm

Congratulations on 500 blog posts, my friend! And what a topic to celebrate with. I loved reading this!

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Lois Flowers June 30, 2024 - 5:15 pm

Thanks so much, Bethany. So thankful to have been on this journey with you for so long!

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Donna June 26, 2024 - 4:07 pm

Lois congratulations on your 500th post! I’m just 3 shy of 400 myself but celebrated 500 subscribers last week! I agree it’s so important to celebrate all our milestones, as it helps us stay focused on God’s goodness.

Your words on prayer are profound and encouraging. How many times when a dear one is suffering, have I thought, “I wish I could DO something to help.” Of course, thinking of a concrete “thing” to do. But “Love prays”, not as a last resort or because we are unable to do anything else, but simply because Love prays. Amen.

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Lois Flowers June 30, 2024 - 5:27 pm

Wow, Donna … 500 subscribers is an amazing milestone! So thankful for the readers God brings our way–He knows just who needs to be reading our words, doesn’t He?

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Lisa Brittain June 26, 2024 - 11:49 am

“During testing hours and weeks of blessing. During moments of rejoicing and seasons of grief.
Love prays.“
So timely and appreciated as I just left my parents on the east coast to fly home to the west coast. It’s hard. And good. I brought home a heart full of memories. Granddaughter times. Excitement and sadness for the future of life coming and going. 🙏 praying through all the thoughts and emotions. Thank you for your wise words and counsel.

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Lois Flowers June 30, 2024 - 5:26 pm

Aw, Lisa … I’m so glad you were able to spend time with your parents and granddaughter and that your heart is now full of those warm memories. Hugs, friend.

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Jennifer June 26, 2024 - 10:37 am

Congratulations on your milestone!! Those 500 posts have been a blessing to many! Thank you for such a strong reminder of the privilege that is ours in prayer!! I am ever needful of strengthing my prayer life (and always fighting the enemy’s resistance/distractions to do so!)

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Lois Flowers June 30, 2024 - 5:24 pm

Thanks so much, Jennifer. I’m right with you in desiring to strengthen my prayer life. That constant battle against the enemy’s resistance and all those distractions is a good indication of just how powerful prayer is, isn’t it?

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Michele Morin June 25, 2024 - 5:42 pm

I need this reminder constantly, Lois. We love our people so much and want to “DO” for them, but the most consequential thing we can DO is to pray for them whenever they come to mind.

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Lois Flowers June 30, 2024 - 5:22 pm

So true, Michele. It’s a comfort to know we lift our prayers to the One who truly knows what is best for them, isn’t it?

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Trudy June 25, 2024 - 4:35 pm

I love this, Lois! So meaningful and touching in how you word it. Yes, love prays! Congratulations on your milestone! Love and blessings to you!

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Lois Flowers June 30, 2024 - 5:21 pm

Thanks, Trudy. Such a blessing to think back on all those posts. So grateful you’ve been along for the ride for so long!

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Helen June 25, 2024 - 4:31 pm

Lois I love this! I have enjoyed reading your blog for about 499 time! lol! Almost since you began typing yor thoughts and bearing your soul to us. I do love to read it. Congratulations! IAnd thank you for this poem. I pray…..all. the. time! Thank you for putting it so perfectly.

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Lois Flowers June 30, 2024 - 5:20 pm

Aw, Helen … I am so glad you are here, and that you’ve been here for so long! 🙂

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Joanne Viola June 25, 2024 - 12:23 pm

Congratulations on all your writing!

And this post is just wonderful! Love prays all the time for it is truly the best and only thing we can do. Keep praying!

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Lois Flowers June 30, 2024 - 5:20 pm

Amen, Joanne. So thankful for you, dear friend …

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Tracy June 25, 2024 - 10:27 am

Hi Lois, firstly, congrats, that’s quite a milestone. And secondly, great practical post on how to show our loved ones love! Visiting from instaencourage bloghop.
God bless
Tracy

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Lois Flowers June 30, 2024 - 5:19 pm

So glad you stopped by this week, Tracy! And thank you for your kind words!

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Ashley Rowland | HISsparrowBlog June 25, 2024 - 9:13 am

Wow, Lois. I love this. Congratulations on 500 posts!

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Lois Flowers June 30, 2024 - 5:19 pm

Thanks so much, Ashley. So grateful we are on this writing journey together!

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Barbara Harper June 25, 2024 - 7:54 am

Congratulations on 500 posts! This post is just lovely–both how it’s written and what it says.

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Lois Flowers June 30, 2024 - 5:18 pm

Thanks, Barbara. The friendships made along the way have been such a gift … I’m so thankful for the ways our paths have crossed.

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Linda Stoll June 25, 2024 - 7:12 am

Congrats, dear blogging companion! Here’s to the next leg of the journey, to whatever God has in store for you.

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Lois Flowers June 30, 2024 - 5:18 pm

Thanks so much, Linda. So grateful to be on this journey together!

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Tessa Lind June 25, 2024 - 7:02 am

Congratulations on hitting 500 posts! Love Writes…

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Lois Flowers June 30, 2024 - 5:17 pm

Aw, Tessa! I love that … “love writes.” Yes, my friend, it definitely does.

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