When We Are Weak, God Makes Us Strong

by Lois Flowers

Inside: Instead of viewing our weaknesses as obstacles or burdens, what if we saw them as opportunities to depend on God’s strength? ~

A while back, I received a group-chat message from a friend in my writing critique group. She was discouraged, and understandably so.

As I cooled down after my morning run, thinking about what I might say to her, my mind flashed back to a few especially exhausting and stressful seasons of my own life.

My prayers during those times were filled with requests for strength. Drawing from the truths of scripture, I regularly reminded God and myself that His strength is made perfect in my weakness (2 Corinthians 12:9). That apart from Him I can do nothing (John 15:5). That when I am weak, He makes me strong (2 Corinthians 12:10).

Not that He needed reminding, of course. That was all for me.

The Source of Our Strength

My friend is strong in many ways. I greatly admire how she has managed and grown through daunting challenges in her life and in the lives of her loved ones.

But she was about to enter an environment where she didn’t feel prepared. So in a quick text, I told her I’d be praying that God’s strength would be made perfect in her weakness.

And then I realized the message wasn’t just for her. I needed this reminder too.

Thankfully, I’m not feeling weak like I was back when these words were always present in my prayers. At certain times and in certain ways, though, I do feel unprepared. Inadequate. Even a bit incompetent.

Perhaps You Can Relate

I don’t know about you, but I’m trying not to let my insecurities and weaknesses (real or imagined) bog me down right now. I’m holding my plans and expectations loosely. I’m taking one step at a time, trusting that God will equip me for what comes next.

It helps when I can look back and see how He carried me through the hardest of times. How His peace sustained me during situations that were far from peaceful. How He opened doors that needed to be opened, just when they needed to be opened.

He’s done it before, and I believe He can do it again. For me, and also for you.

God Knows What You Need

I don’t know what you need today. Maybe it’s actual physical strength. Perhaps it’s mental resilience, emotional stability, spiritual wisdom or relational endurance.

Whatever it is, God knows.

He has wired each one of us in a particular way. He’s given each of us specific gifts and abilities.

But He’s also designed us with weaknesses—some apparent, others not so much—that require us to depend on Him.

We look at our weaknesses as, well, weaknesses. But maybe we should look at them as opportunities to rely on God’s strength. To trust in His provision. To allow Him to work things out in ways we never would have expected.

That’s how I’m choosing to look at it anyway. Want to join me?

Lois

It helps when we can look back and see how God carried us through the hardest of times. How His peace sustained us during situations that were far from peaceful. Share on X We look at our weaknesses as, well, weaknesses. But maybe we should look at them as opportunities to rely on God’s strength. Share on X

P.S. I’m linking up this week with Inspire Me Monday, #tellhisstory, InstaEncouragements, Let’s Have Coffee and Grace & Truth.

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24 comments

David June 28, 2024 - 9:38 pm

This post is a masterpiece of spiritual wisdom. Thank you for sharing your profound knowledge.

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Lois Flowers June 30, 2024 - 5:16 pm

Thank YOU for your kind words, David.

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Cecelia Lester August 31, 2023 - 3:39 pm

Your insight is very deep into this issue of our being weak. Thank you for your thoughts. I am coming from the One Word link-up for August.

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Lois Flowers September 4, 2023 - 6:47 pm

Good to hear from you, Cecilia. Thanks for your kind words, friend.

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Lisa Blair August 25, 2023 - 10:57 am

I needed this reminder, Lois, once again we ‘lean in’ and allow Him to be our strength.

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Lois Flowers August 26, 2023 - 3:01 pm

Oh Lisa … Leaning on those everlasting arms is always the best choice, isn’t it?

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Lisa notes August 20, 2023 - 5:22 pm

One affirmation that I’m reminding myself of lately is this: “I don’t have to know. I am learning. My job is just to show up.” I seem to need this reminder every day in some area of life.

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Lois Flowers August 21, 2023 - 10:53 am

I can definitely relate to that, Lisa. It’s comforting and freeing not to feel like we have to have all the answers. Especially when it seems like there are no answers at all! Hugs, friend.

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Bethany McIlrath August 20, 2023 - 10:55 am

Oh did this bless me today, friend! I’m stepping into something new soon, too, at church, and yesterday was feeling my weakness as I prepares. Thank you for this, and especially for this perspective shift: “ We look at our weaknesses as, well, weaknesses. But maybe we should look at them as opportunities to rely on God’s strength.”

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Lois Flowers August 21, 2023 - 10:50 am

I’ll be praying for your new role to go well, Bethany. Along with the rest of your world! Hope your week is off to a good start. 🙂

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Barbara Harper August 18, 2023 - 4:02 pm

That is a good way to look at it. Instead of getting discouraged or frustrated about my weaknesses, I can release the situation into God’s capable hands and look forward to what He will do.

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Lois Flowers August 21, 2023 - 10:41 am

The way you put that is exactly the message I need to remember this morning, Barbara. 🙂

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Donna August 17, 2023 - 3:12 pm

While I don’t especially like being reminded of my weaknesses, I am learning His strength far outstrips my own. Choosing to rest in Him removes all my striving desires and fears.

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Lois Flowers August 21, 2023 - 10:33 am

Amen and amen, Donna. Thinking of you and praying for you as I listen to hold music this morning, friend.

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Trudy August 17, 2023 - 12:09 pm

I so relate to this: “I don’t know about you, but I’m trying not to let my insecurities and weaknesses (real or imagined) bog me down right now. I’m holding my plans and expectations loosely. I’m taking one step at a time, trusting that God will equip me for what comes next.” Yes, one step at a time. It reminds me of Martin Luther King Jr’s quote – “Faith is taking the first step even when you can’t see the whole staircase.” Thank you for this encouraging post, Lois. Love and blessings of strength and peace to you in these next steps forward!

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Lois Flowers August 21, 2023 - 10:32 am

I love that quote, Trudy. It’s so good to hear from you, dear friend. I hope all is well in your neck of the woods. 🙂

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Tea With Jennifer August 15, 2023 - 10:37 pm

God indeed knows what we need Lois 😊
Blessings, Jennifer

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Lois Flowers August 21, 2023 - 10:31 am

Amen, Jennifer!

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Debbie Wilson August 15, 2023 - 6:31 pm

I don’t like having weaknesses, but I do believe God wants to use them to allow me to experience His strength.

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Lois Flowers August 21, 2023 - 10:31 am

Oh Debbie … He always knows what we need, doesn’t He?

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Joanne Viola August 15, 2023 - 2:02 pm

Lois, what a beautiful way to look at our weaknesses! And yes, I am joining you!

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Lois Flowers August 21, 2023 - 10:30 am

So glad we can be on this journey together, Joanne. 🙂

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Michele Morin August 15, 2023 - 7:28 am

I appreciate your response to your friend and am also working at bringing my scripture reading into my prayer life so that one informs the other.

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Lois Flowers August 21, 2023 - 10:28 am

It’s a lifelong journey, isn’t it?

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